Jen Lum Therapy
Jen Lum Therapy
Northest LA & San Gabriel Valley Relationship Therapist
 
 

Clinical Specialties

Therapy Services

 
 
 
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For Individuals

You may find success in certain areas of your life while feeling stuck in others. Whether you are looking to focus on a specific point of distress, or dive deep into a full season of meaningful self-discovery, dedicating an hour a week to individual therapy can help you prioritize freedom, joy, and purpose in your life.

You may hope to:

  • Understand and find agency in your patterns of behavior in relationships

  • Create stronger, deeper, and more satisfying relationships

  • Grieve the loss of a loved one or relationship

  • Navigate life transitions and stressors with self-compassion

  • Feel more confident in your body, your identity, and your true and genuine self

  • Break through performance anxiety and creative blocks

  • Heal and grow resilience from past trauma

 
 

For Couples

We are all inherently hardwired to need to feel securely attached to our partner and loved ones. This powerful connection helps us feel stronger, more courageous, and more independent. When that connection is lost or threatened, we can cope in ways that trap us in a familiar cycles of responses such as anger, criticism, distancing, and avoidance.

I utilize Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), an empirically-validated couples therapy model, to help couples stop these cycles, articulate their underlying needs to each other, and respond in a loving, compassionate way to each other.

You May hope to:

  • Deepen your emotional and sexual intimacy

  • Experience each other as emotionally engaged, responsive, and accessible

  • Disarm stuck patterns of escalating arguments or silent avoidance, and reach out to each other successfully

  • Heal from past relationship wounds

  • Recover from infidelity and rebuild trust

  • Approach complex life decisions together with confidence and compassion